Cynthia Starich


So let’s be honest—this is the third time I’ve been to San Fran and yet—this is the first blog post I’m actually writing about the golden city. I’m currently writing this on the plane ride from Denver to San Fran. 

ADHD MOMENT: Check our this cool storm cloud photo I got over Denver just after take off:

Moving on…

I have a tendency to put the “pro” in “procrastination”, when it comes to things like travel blogs … My travel blogs tend to turn into a recap of all the off script things I end up getting into by luck, Chance, or fate…and written about a month after the fact. If you read the one about our recent trip to Kauai: How Kauai Changed My Life , then you know EXACTLY what I mean.😅

I tend to live in the ever-changing moment (which, makes planning travel blogs practically impossible…which is where Instagram Stories come to save the day)

Oh Instagram stories: where rapidly changing plans can be documented in chronological order in a way that is cohesive and makes sense.

Click here to see the Instagram story!

Well, mostly…

We’ll be staying at the Hyatt Regency on the Embarcadaro agaian–and I’m super stoked because it’s the best hotel I’ve ever been to. However, I don’t plan on spending TOO much time in the hotel…I’ve got other plans.

Or something.

I actually have no idea what I’m going to do on this trip–but I do know one thing: I get to see my San Fran bestie, Bohdan!

While my love, Bryan, is off being responsible and getting educated at his software developers’ engineering conference, god knows what Bohdan and I will get ourselves into this week.

Now, Bohdan may be well known for his insanely amazing musical covers, but he’s also freaking hilarious and creatively brilliant: he started a mini Instagram series of “Adventures with Katya”.

I CANNOT get enough of the feisty, Russian female immigrant with a strong sense of sarcasm (and love for Vodka) played by the one and only Bohdan. 

Katya  may have a full mustache—but don’t let this detail fool you: she is completely charming with her clueless tendencies and witty, defensive-comebacks that I’m sure you’ll find to be quite endearing.

Or disturbing…

But of course, that’s what makes it so wonderful!

Maybe I’ll be lucky enough to act in one of Katya’s adventures. Maybe Bohdan and I will pull off another Lady Gaga cover…


Have any song cover suggestions? We’d love to hear them! In the mean time, check out Bohdan’s Instagram page. You’ll love his brilliant voice and hilarious skit writing!!

Check out this throwback from 2017 of Bohdan and I jamming out to some of our favorite pop songs just before someone called the cops on us: 

And yes…

Like always:


Plus, San Fran cops are actually really kind and understanding. 💕💕

Kauai, nicknamed Hawaii’s “Garden Island” is arguably the most beautiful of the Hawaiian islands. Despite being Hawaii’s fourth largest island, this tropical gem has some of the most iconic beaches, breathtaking canyons, luscious gardens and endless rainbows. If you are an adventurer, you’ll love my list of the MUST see and do spots (including a secret one) for a Hawaiian adventure of a lifetime.

Let’s begin on the south end of the Island:

Poipu Beach

This beach is the largest beach on the south side of Kauai, and by far the most popular. This beach is perfect for adults and kids of all ages, as there are rock barriers that make shallow “kiddie pool” areas perfect for kids. (Or myself…fun fact I’m extremely afraid of fish.) You’ll be able to say hi to the giant Green Sea turtles that come up onto the beach to bask in the sun. The beach is surrounded by a wide open park, and is just across the street from Poipu’s most popular bar restaurant, Brennecke’s Broiler.

Brennecke’s Beach Broiler

Poipu’s beach front, duel level restaurant, is located just across the street from Poipu beach. The upper level and deck is home to the bar/restaurant, where you can enjoy a famous Mango Pina Colada with a view of the beach. Downstairs, you’ll find a grab and go sandwich deli and ice cream shop. Stop in for some shaved ice over Macadamia nut ice cream, or my favorite, a delicious banana smoothie!

Poipu Shopping Village

About a mile northwest of Poipu Beach is the Poipu Shopping Village. This beautiful village has everything from a grocery store, beachwear, souvenir shops, restaurants and coffee bars, and helpful tour guides that can help you book your boat tour, zip line adventure, helicopter tour, and much more. We frequented this village often throughout our trip for fresh Kombucha, island-fresh groceries, and the occasional bottle of reef-safe sunblock.

Kauai Coffee Plantation

The Kauai Coffee Plantation is about 20 minutes West of Poipu Beach in the town of Kaleheo. The plantation offers free 30 minute tours about every half hour or so. While you wait for your tour, you can enjoy free samples of all the coffee grown right on the plantation. My favorite coffee was the “Toasty Banana Nut Cream”. We ended up buying a bag of our own.

Tip: You can even purchase a bag to be shipped back home to surprise your family with the greatest gift of tasty caffeine. They will pack it up and mail it for you right at the plantation.

Nu’alolo Trail & Waimea Canyon

Traveling further north, we briefly stopped at Waimea Canyon. It’s easy to park and walk onto the viewing deck to get an incredible view of “The Pacific’s Grand Canyon”. I’m no weatherman, but there’s a high chance of rainbows with a 100% chance of breathtaking landscapes.

If you’re up for one of the most scenic hikes on Kauai, keep driving north about 5 miles from the Waimea Canyon to the famous Nu’alolo Trail. The Nu’alolo Trail can be extremely wet and sloppy depending on the time of year. (That didn’t stop us, because we’re warriors despite being incredibly out of shape.) The trail is 3.75 one way, but the end of the trail is the greatest view of the canyons, ocean coast, cliffs and valleys that you can get with only the exception of a helicopter tour.

Tip: Be prepared. This hike is LEGIT and you WILL need to make sure to wear good shoes and bring plenty of water. We brought a backpack filled with our camera gear, 3 bottles of water, an umbrella, sunblock, sun hats, and extra socks.

Helicopter Tour

If you’re not exactly up for 7 miles of hiking though varying levels of intense terrain, I highly recommend a helicopter tour of Kauai if you can swing it! This was one of the most emotional, unforgettable experiences of my life and I can not stress enough how miraculous of an experience this was. Helicopter Tours book out quickly, so I recommend booking a few weeks out. Despite our last minute decision, we were luckily able to book one during our time on the island.

Shipwreck Beach

A pretty easy, 5 minute walk up some sandy and rocky hills will get you to the top of the rock at Shipwreck Beach. The ocean view is beautiful, but be extremely careful–rock is known to break and you can easily fall into the ocean if you’re not careful. Always enjoy and respect the forces of nature and the power of the ocean. We were able to spot a few sea turtles from the top of the rock!

Tidepools Restaurant

After your Shipwreck Beach visit, walk a few minutes south to Tidepools restaurant. Take a walk though the beautiful flower garden path leading directly to the restaurant’s entry. This beach front property is part of the Grand Hyatt Resort, but we just came to visit the beach, garden, & restaurant without staying in the hotel.

Tide Pools has great food, but what really makes this experience worthwhile is the environment. Sit in the patio garden just beside the tide pools of tropical fish that swim (and occasionally splash) at the surface of the water.

Kilauea Light House

This gorgeous view is home to not only the cutest little red lighthouse, but also to many different species of birds. The Kilauea Light House is actually a national park and wildlife refuge center. So, if you’re looking to get some majestic shots of the Nenes, you’ve come to the right spot! This little stop involves no hiking–just a short 5 minute walk on a paved pathway leading to the light house. Or, opt to see it from a distance and choose not to walk at all. You’ll still be able to see this 100-year-old captivating landmark from the parking lot.

Hanalei Bay

Hanalei Bay is located right in the heart of Princeville. Or, should I say Princeville is central of Hanalei Bay (I’m sure this massive bay was here long before commercial tourism and fancy resorts). This beautiful bay is breathtakingly stunning, and is the perfect place to surf, snorkel, or enjoy an ocean front patio breakfast.

Okay, and now for the secret one I promised…

Queen’s Bath

Dare I even mention it. Queen’s Bath is actually very controversial because of how dangerous it really is. Tourists die here every year because they underestimate the severity of the high tide in this gorgeous but deadly rock cove. I’m all for adventure, but even I wouldn’t go in it because I am NOT a strong swimmer. All I’m saying is, if you’re going to go, DON’T GO IN unless you’ve thoroughly researched what you’re getting yourself into. You can still enjoy this land mark without actually physically going down into the cove. The tide and ocean aggression of Queen’s Bath changes with the time of year AND even time of day. Not to mention, visitors will need to travel a difficult, mile long MUDDY trail in order to even visit it.

Want to know the full, behind-the-scenes story of our unconventional adventures while on the island? Chick out this blog to learn how to make any vacation a total adventure at absolutely no extra cost–it all starts with your mindset!

The magic of Hawaii’s “Garden Island”

“All I want is to buy a new ukulele from the island and find some locals to jam with,” I said to Bryan, weeks before we even started packing for this trip.

I never really traveled growing up, mostly because our family couldn’t afford it, so I didn’t have any sort of travel agenda nor the slightest clue of what to expect, other than the traditional imagery of beaches and Pina coladas that come to mind when you think of “Hawaiian Vacation.”

However, our vacation was the LAST thing from typical island getaway.

No, no…it was so much more than that.

This wasn’t a vacation as much as it was the wake up call I needed to remind myself of life’s most important virtues. The lessons learned, friendships made, and the perspective that I took away from this trip far surpassed that of what I would consider a traditional vacation. (What actually is that, anyway?) Stay with me and I’ll reveal the secret of having the absolute BEST vacation experience you could imagine at absolutely NO extra cost. Promise.

We decided to stay on the South side of the island in a town called Poipu. The town was the perfect combination of commercialized shopping boutiques, smoothie bars (banana smoothies are the bomb), and the famous Poipu beach, integrated with open parks, authentic Hawaiian culture, and plenty of friendly locals. We saw plenty of Green Sea Turtles and even a Monk Seal.

Our first morning on the island began with some shopping at the local village plaza. You can buy everything from your local groceries, sun hats, and Kombucha on tap. But, it was the color-changing nail polish store that will always be the most memorable.

A friendly, twenty-something surfer looking dude was working in Del Sol when Bryan and I popped in to look around. We got to chatting about music after jamming out to his playlist in the store for a bit. (French Kiwi Juice is my new favorite band). I told him all about my band, Down 2 Dance, song writing, and he told us about his side hustle in videography on the island.

When Skylar asked us what our plans were for our first day on the island, we confessed that we really didn’t have any set plans other than my quest to find a locally made ukulele.

“Let’s make a music video!!”

If I recall correctly, it was all his idea–but, I was just as ecstatic because I have always wanted to do a music video. And, to my own original song??

Day 1 on Kauai and dreams are already coming true…

Bryan was also pumped to use the new Hero 7 Black GoPro he bought just before we left home. And let me tell you, this little device really was our Hero the entire trip. I couldn’t recommend it more! It’s so simple to use, water proof, and takes 4K videos. Pure magic!

When Skylar finished his shift, the three of us jumped into the red Camaro and jammed with the top down all the way to Kalehao Music and Strings. I had a beautiful new ukulele shortly after, and the three of us spent the rest of the evening back at the condo, jamming and song writing by the ocean on the balcony with a bottle of Malibu.

Over the next several days, Bryan and I hiked the Nualolo Trail, and got some amazing footage and photography of the Kauai valley and Napali coastline. The view was absolutely breathtaking. I couldn’t tell where the ocean ended and the sky began, with rainbows fading in and out of view from all around. This is the cheaper option to see the Kauai canons if you’re not able to spring for a Helicopter tour. (More on the Helicopter tour later.)

Nualolo Trail

I also learned just how out of shape I really was–the trail is 3.75 miles each way. I recommend going on a DRY day, otherwise, you are almost sure to fall in the mud at least once.

One morning, Skylar, who happened to live just a couple blocks down the road from where we were staying, came over to record the audio for my original song, “What You Are”. We were all throwing out ideas of where to shoot video content for the song.

“I wish we had a drone.” Skylar said, wrapping up the mic. Bryan, the total activist immediately began asking Skylar if he knew of some place we could get one here on the island. After several phone calls to different businesses, we were all back in the Camaro, headed to the Walmart to see if they had the Mavic Air Drone in stock.

We’ve been wanting a drone for a while, but didn’t quite have the incentive to buy one. Until now. One hour and one drone later, we were back at the condo unpacking the drone and testing out its flying power.

This is going to be amazing!! We were so stoked about our new toy. Skylar mentioned he had a truck, and that we should hit the beach with it and fly the drone over the coastline at some point later that week.

The next day, Bryan and I toured the Kaleheo Coffee plantation, and took home some amazing, locally grown banana flavored coffee. We caught up on some grocery shopping, and bought some fresh fruit, Anahola Granola, made on the island, yogurt, macadamia nut pancake mix, and my favorite thing: a candle in a coconut.


The cashier was so excited to tell me all the must-know details about my new candle.

“And, it was made HERE! Right here on the island!!”

She was making me feel so much better about spending $30 on a relatively small candle. But I’ll admit: it smelled soooooo good. Plus, it was official: I needed to see if Nina–the most passionate cashier ever–was right. We took our new candle, and all of our breakfast groceries home, and I began filling up the bathtub.

I think baths are so underrated as one of the most simple, romantic dates you can have with your SO. It’s the perfect way to unwind and really be present with the person you love.

During one of our walks to the beach, I scooped up some fallen flower pedals and put them in my pocket. They were the perfect addition to an already fantastic bathtub date, but even better because they smelled amazing. Plus, I may or may not have had to jump a fence to get them, making them a symbol of accomplishment. 😅

“The energy on this island is incredible. I’ve never experienced anything like it in my life.” As Bryan and I reflected on our trip so far, we were quickly realizing what really made this island so truly beautiful: How genuine the locals are. The cashier at the grocery store was probably happier than I was about the coconut candle, which now sat floating in the water by our feet.

She was right, it certainly floated.

We had already met and interacted with so many people with the most genuine energy because of their gratitude: The island provides for its people. From farm fresh coffee to eggs from the happiest Hawaiian chickens, local granola and abundant fresh fruit, I realized how much the island takes care of its people, and the people take care of each other.

The next morning, I woke up to the sound of ocean waves and the smell of banana coffee brewing. Bryan was cooking up eggs in the kitchen, and I starting making macadamia nut pancakes and blueberry parfaits.

As we ate breakfast, we figured out our plan for the day. Kind of. I’ll be honest, I’m not a huge planner. While there are a few things that can be locked in on the calendar, I don’t like to have full days booked up from start to finish. I just feel like a vacation can begin to feel more stressful than necessary by doing that, so I like to have room in the schedule to breathe.

And improvise…

As we sat on the balcony watching the giant waves crashing into the rocks, I got an idea.

“Let’s do a photo shoot on the rocks by the waves.”

“Don’t you think that’s kind of dangerous?”

After getting our gear together, we made our way down to the giant rocks where the 15-20ft waves crashed majestically into the rock cliffs. The sound of the waves was simply indescribable. After watching how the waves behaved, we picked a spot we thought would be promising.

And within 5 minutes, we were right.

Here I am, standing on this rock cliff about 20ft down from the ocean, but far enough away from the edge to where it was very unlikely that I would actually fall off. I think.


Bryan, about 10ft away from me, brought up his camera as I braced myself for what I thought would be the average medium sized wave…

One second I was completely dry. The next second I was completely soaked. Feeling the power of that wave crash completely over me was beyond invigorating. I couldn’t believe I got drenched! That must have been a bigger wave, I thought.

“DID YOU GET THATTTT?!?!” I shouted to Bryan.

“Um…YEAH…COME LOOK!” he yelled back.

I took a look at the preview of the photo on the camera’s viewfinder:


I let the warm wind dry me off as we got some more video footage for the music video. I remember looking out into the ocean when a realization came over me.

Sometimes in life, it’s not always about having a set plan. Sometimes you have to take a step back, look at how the waves are rolling, and position yourself accordingly, even if you don’t know with 100% certainty what the outcome will be. Sometimes you just need to simply trust in what you know about yourself and how you see the world to position yourself for the next wave in life. Opportunities will always come your way. Don’t chase them. Focus on preparing yourself for them so that you’re ready when they roll in.

We went on another (less dangerous) coastal walk which lead to a garden tied to a different beach front resort. I pretty much refused to go anywhere without my new ukulele, and began serenading the NeNe birds from a swing just off the beach.

At the heart of the garden is the coolest restaurant on Kauai: Tide Pools. Tide Pools is attached to the Grand Hyatt Regency Resort. The food is pretty good, but what makes this place so cool is the experience. We sat at a table at the edge of the water pond where all kinds of colorful fish swim right at the top of the water in hopes you’ll toss them a piece of your Hamachi.

They were lucky fish that evening.

We were nearing the end of our time on the south side of the island before we were to make our way to Princeville on Hanalai Bay (on the north side of the island.)

One of those mornings, we met up with Skylar and his friend, Jake. They pulled up in the truck and that meant it was time to hit the beach! With no time wasted, we were on our way to miles of coastal beach for some fun in the sand and a drone to capture it all. We ended the night with pizza and good company, reminiscing a great day and the awesome footage we captured, thanks to Skylar.

The next day, we packed up the Camaro and made our way to Princeville. Not going to lie, the resort was picture perfect, but my heart was still in Poipu. People dressed a lot fancier at Princeville, which, may be fun for a couple of days, but I could tell that most of the people at Princeville probably didn’t leave the resort to explore the island. If you’re looking for that traditional, all-inclusive-fancy-resort kind of vibe, yeah, you’ll probably like Princeville.

We found our way out of resort life a couple more times:

  • Secret Beach : (Or, not-so-secret-beach) has some of the clearest water perfect for snorkeling on the island. Secret beach requires traveling the hidden trail to get there. Make sure to pack good shoes!
  • Queen’s Bath : Dare I even mention it. Queen’s Bath is actually very controversial because of how dangerous it really is. Tourists die here every year because they underestimate the severity of the high tide in this gorgeous but deadly rock cove. I’m all for adventure, but even I wouldn’t go in it because I am NOT a strong swimmer. All I’m saying is, if you’re going to go, DON’T GO IN unless you’ve thoroughly researched what you’re getting yourself into. You can still enjoy this land mark without actually physically going down into the cove. The tide and ocean aggression of Queen’s Bath changes with the time of year AND even time of day. Not to mention, visitors will need to travel a difficult, mile long MUDDY trail in order to even visit it.
  • Kilauea Lighthouse : National landmark surrounded by many species of the most majestic birds. This is a pretty easy, picturesque spot that doesn’t require any real hiking. See it from a distance or pay the $10 to walk the 5 minute paved path to the Lighthouse.
  • Helicopter tour : If you can swing this, DO IT. It was one of the most incredible, moving experiences of my life. We chose to fly with the doors completely removed for what I called the “Edge of Glory” experience. The Helicopter tour that we did actually took us inside of an inactive volcano. It was the kind of experience that makes you step back and realize how incredibly magical and vast the world is, and how great of a gift it is to simply be a part of its glory throughout an entire lifetime.

Check out, my top 10 things to see & do on Kauai.

Sunday morning we woke up to have Easter brunch on the outdoor patio overlooking beautiful Hanalei Bay. A woman in a floral dress was singing and playing ukulele, making her way from table to table with her contagious smile and unmistakable energy. She stopped at our table.

“Aloha beautifuls how are you enjoying your breakfast!?”, she said with a beaming smile.

“It’s absolutely amazing! And I must say, I love your ukulele.” It was a really cool ukulele that had 8 strings. I’d never seen anything like it.

Without any hesitation, Mili Lani handed me her ukulele and insisted I play it. Which was when Bryan announced, “She wrote a song!”

With encouragement from everyone around me, I began playing and singing my song right there on a crowded patio.

“Take me on a journey to a place where we belong.

Hold me, go and love me, till the sky fades into dawn…”

Check out the music video here.

This will always be one of my most cherished performances. Mili Lani brought over the rest of the breakfast staff, and I had the most overwhelming amount of love and support from complete strangers. I will never forget it the rest of my life.

I truly believe that when you manifest good energy into the universe, the universe reciprocates it. Some of the best experiences in life simply cannot be purchased. Being open minded with the spirit of adventure automatically puts you ahead of having an average vacation, no matter who you are or where you travel to.

Until next time,

Mahalo Kauai 🤙

An exclusive behind-the-scenes look into Milwaukee’s hidden gem of a studio + event lounge.

Okay, so it’s confession time. About a year and a half ago, I was checking the mail when I noticed a sign just outside our main lobby that read, “Northern Lights Photography Studio + Events”. How cool!! A new photography studio–and in the exact building I live in–of all places!!

The studio is located right next to Screaming Tuna, so to get there from the outside, you just go in though the main lobby and up the stairs, and down the hall. (The hallway walls are reserved for photographers who would like to display their own work!)

I’ve heard and seen great things coming out of this studio on their Instagram, but decided to reach out to see what the space was all about for myself. David Bernacchi, the studio’s booking agent followed up with me the very same day (on a Saturday), and we had a tour set up that very next week.

As David put it, this place feels like a spaceship. With its wireless remote controlled lights, backdrops, and window shades, the state-of-the-art ceiling drop lights and cyclorama walls instantly make this studio a modern photographer’s dream. Even the bathroom is aesthetically gorgeous, encompassing dual-rainfall shower heads.

I was particularly in love with the amazing make up room!! The vanity sets have color temperature adjustable LED lighting. There’s even a clothing steamer and curling & straightening iron holders. They really thought of everything!

Not to mention, a fully furnished kitchen and lounge, surrounded by a gorgeous view of the Milwaukee River make Northern Lights Photo Studio perfect for wedding shoots and all kinds of events.

Robert Popp, the studio owner is an all around awesome guy and studio host. He really goes the extra mile to help photographers feel comfortable in the space and is happy to suggest light set ups for some fantastic results. I loved watching Bob work with Bryan in our test photo shoot last week. I couldn’t believe how many shots we got in such a short amount of time:

Click here for some fun behind-the-scenes out-takes from this shoot!

The part that I think photographers will love the most is how quickly everything can be set up. Simply push the drop lights from the ceiling to where you want them, pull them up or down, and press a button on the remote to select from an array of backdrops, (or use the always freshly painted white Cyclorama wall) and you’re ready to go!

Want to test it out for yourself? Come join us on Thursday, May 2nd any time from 6:00-9:00PM at the Northern Lights Photo Studio Open House & Networking Event. This free event will be an awesome night of test shoots, networking, and collaboration with complimentary refreshments and hors d’oeuvres. You can reserve your free tickets HERE, and check out the Facebook Event HERE.

Can’t wait till then? Book the studio and save 15% off your total booking session when you use promo code: CYNFLUENCE

There’s a million reasons WHY and a million reasons HOW you can #WearRed during the month filled with love! Did you know that February is recognized by the American Heart Association as “Heart Month”? February 1st, (Heart Day) starts the kick off to bring awareness to Cardiovascular Disease, which is the leading cause among women. Now though February 23rd, you can make a donation at your local CVS Pharmacy to help support research to end Heart Disease.

Not to mention, February is Filled with events! For me, February is quickly filling up with fashion & blogger events, band gigs, agency shoots, and of course…Valentine’s Day.

If you’re not so keen on rocking the red in your typical daily life, now is the time to do it! Here are my favorite ways to pop the red:

Red Purses

I firmly believe that red looks fantastic on every woman.

Red Purses

Let red be your wardrobe pop of color this month! A bright red bag is a quick way to brighten up your wardrobe without even having to think about it.

I can fit 2 pairs of heels in this bag

You won’t believe the price of this bag.
And, it comes in 3 other colors!
Yes…I’m a sucker for Kate Spade

Red Shoes

These have a cheetah print bottom!!
And they’re completely my favorite…
These are practically pairable in every way
What if I told you these are only $15?

Red Blazers & Jackets

Love the gold buttons on this one!
This one is available in regular and petite
This one is so fluffy!

Red Dresses!

This red sweater dress is literally perfection.
This one is so classic! I love the subtle shine.
Make no apologies in this sheer goddess gown

Red Lip

Red Velvet Lime Crime

Lime Crime liquid lip color is my absolute favorite lip collection. I may not have close to every color…

It lasts SO long and it doesn’t move! Not to mention, the colors are extremely vivid, and stay bold for hours! If you’re looking for the perfect red lip, I highly recommend Red Velvet.

Want to jump in on the fun? Click here for upcoming events in Milwaukee, and here for the full show line up of my band, Down 2 Dance.

Shoutout to Omniverse Media for these awesome studio shots!